What are you letting go of as we look to the close of 2010? What will you be happy to set down?
These past few months seem to have been some big ones. I am setting down my super hero cape and sending it to Goodwill TODAY. I used to think I had to go it alone. That if I didn’t do what it took to get the job done, or die trying, the whole ‘thing’ would collapse. Now I believe that if I’m all that’s holding it together, maybe it’s time to set it down.
I never used to make resolutions. Now I make them all the time. Like everyday, I resolve again — constantly refining and tweaking the baby steps necessary to adjust my behavior to be a little more aligned, and little more in integrity.
I’m looking to January to start off the year in alignment. The majority of things I’m tracking are recreating daily or almost daily habits. These little micro-habits are the ones that are most likely to support long term in making change. It’s about practice. I’m gathering my daily practices at Health Month where I log my intentions. It becomes a little bit of a game (OK, a lot b/c there are incentives like ‘points’ and ‘fruit’) but what I find happens is that I want to check ‘yes’ bad enough that that incentive gets me up out of my chair to take my vitamin or to take the next step in my list of goals. I’m trying it again in January.
Here is how my goals are shaping up as of right now… (they will change every day somewhat til the new year starts).
I’m starting with some daily practices, some strong habits to engage in no matter what. The other pieces fall into place around these…
The first I’ve mentioned already: Practice yoga EVERYDAY. It’s about practice. As a teacher once told me, unless you do it consistently, whether you feel like it or not, it’s a hobby, not a practice. I am sure there will be a mix of active and passive practices and the ‘everyday’ thing usually gets hard for me about week 2.5… I am reapplying myself again this month, and diving into the ‘doing it ANYWAY’ aspect of practice.
The third is an easy one: write in a journal EVERYDAY. This helps me to keep on track with my goals and practices, and to notice the subtle shifts in my life that occur as a result of engaging with these practices.
The 4th & 5th ones are mundane. I’ve been told flossing has huge benefits in particular to cardiac health,. I’ve never been much of a flosser. I’m tired of telling myself I ‘should’. This is a habit in the making already, along with the multivitamin which still makes me gag. These two (& ‘breakfast’), more than anything else benefited from my using Health Month in December. I’m keeping them on there so I have a reminder of my intentions.
That seems simple enough. Just five daily intentions. The rest of my intentions have at least one ‘day of integration’ where I make no requests of myself. Since this is WOYOPRACMO and since my intentions are pretty ‘practice’ centric anyway, it’s not surprise to me when I look at what’s left, how they cluster in that realm.
What are you feeling ‘resolute’ about? What major changes are you planning to make in the coming year??